The DNA is arranged along stringy chromosomes, like long computer tapes. All the DNA in each of our cells is addressed in the same sense as computer ROM, or indeed computer tape, is addressed. The exact numbers or names that we use to label a given address are arbitrary, just as they are for computer memory. What matters is that a particular location in my DNA corresponds precisely to one particular location in your DNA: they have the same address. The contents of my DNA location 321762 may or may not be the same as the contents of your location 321762. But my location 321762 is in precisely the same position in my cells as your location 321762 is in your cells. 'Position' here means position along the length of a particular chromosome. The exact physical position of a chromosome in a cell doesn't matter. Indeed, it floats about in fluid so its physical position varies, but every location along the chromosome is precisely addressed in terms of linear order along the length of the chromosome, just as every location along a computer tape is precisely addressed, even if the tape is strewn around the floor rather than being neatly rolled up. All of us, all human beings, have the same set of DNA addresses, but not necessarily the same contents of those addresses. That is the main reason why we are all different from each other.